David Budnik

Under a Lucky Star

Last week I celebrated my 81st birthday. As one grows older, every person starts thinking about how they lived their life, reminiscing over the events of long passed days, analyzing their actions and summing them up. Many people might ask themselves: Am I happy? Was my life a success? Our views change with the years. Older people must be right when they say that in youth one thinks that unhappiness is the lack of happiness and in old age one thinks that happiness is the lack of unhappiness. I know what bereavement is. Old friends leave this world one after another. My wife died before she was 60, not having seen our grandson who was named after my mother, Olga Davidiovna

My mother used to say that I was born lucky, or as the English say, with a silver spoon in my mouth. In Russian one would say, I was born in a gown. I always understood my mother's phrase figuratively, as being born under lucky stars. But once my mother told me that I had literally been born in a so-called gown, that is I was born in my birth-film. Certain peoples consider this a sign promising a happy life. More than once I recalled my mother's words...

My life was not easy, sometimes simply unbearable but I can not call it a failure. How did I manage to survive being doomed? Many people asked me about it and I myself have pondered on this question. I must have been born lucky. Every day people next to me were killed. Everybody walked with death at his side and it was impossible to plan an escape.
I was lucky that during those two awful years, I never turned out to be the third or the fifth when they shot every third or fifth person, just to make the others scared, suppress their will and ability to resist and the desire to live.

I was lucky that I could do some work. By luck, I found myself among those who were chosen to work and thus I was not killed at once but left until 'later'.

I was lucky that I was not killed at the time of escape. Bullets do not choose who is to live or die.

I was lucky to have met good people who helped and supported me.

There is a folk saying that every man must build a home, plant a tree and bring up a child. I think that I have done that. But, in my opinion, there is still one more thing left to be done. I must write about those things my friends and I have gone through.


Probably, I should have done it earlier because now many details escape my mind. I have set myself to write about everything that I remember without exaggeration or embellishing anything. Simply, the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...'

I was born in December, 11 on the first day of Chanukah, the holiday marking the victory of the Jewish people over the Greek invaders. The struggle was led by a father and his two sons who are remembered as the Maccabees. The three-year war succeeded in saving the Temple and rebuilding the altar, replacing the one built by the Greeks. It was in the year 165 B.C. on the 25th day of Kislev. (The month Kislev corresponds to November-December) In the Temple, the Maccabees found a vessel with some holy oil and lit the menorah. The fire burnt not for one day as expected, but for eight days. This started the tradition of lighting Chanukah candles on every night of the eight-day holiday.

When I was young, I had no idea about such things. Our generation had been raised in the spirit of atheism and we were not interested in those events. I could not guess that my people, my nation and I would ever face such hardships again.

Now many things in my life seem symbolic, like the date of my birth. After I lived through September 29, 1941, the day of bloodshed in Babi Yar, I could say that I was born again.
It now seems symbolic that shortly after the war it was my construction unit that went to do repairs in the lodging house at 48 Melnikova street, the same house where during the nazi occupation I was kept as a prisoner before being transferred to Syrets concentration camp.
I was born in Belaya Tserkva, at that time a small town near Kiev. After I graduated from the seventh class of my trade school, I still wanted to continue my education, but there was nowhere to go. Later an agricultural college opened, but that did not appeal to me. My father took me to my relatives who live in Kiev, where I could find a job and continue studying.

I was still unsure of what type of work I wanted to do when they issued an appeal to the Soviet youth: Young men and women, to the Donbass. So several of us got together and decided to there to mine coal. I am still under the impression that the mine where we ended up was a private one since it was called the Yengus' mine. That might have been the name of the former owner. Nevertheless I did not have time to find out anything since we did not stay there long. I was disappointed by the fact that the boys went down into the mine in a cage while I was left in the upper hauling with the girls.

None of us were trained. Somebody advised us to go to Altchevsk where workers were needed for the metallurgical and cooking-coal mills. There I worked in an open hearth furnace shop. I collected the metal scrap in a cart and brought them to the furnace. Furnace loading was done manually and this work was beyond my physical capacities.
I came back to Kiev. My uncle and aunt did not live in a mansion but they did give shelter.
I worked in the workshop of the housing union, where they made window frames, lattices and doors for repairing and building new houses. At the shop there were courses for training electrical technicians. Since I wanted to get some qualifications, I enrolled in these courses. We had classes two to three times a week after we finished work.

It was then that I discover that I wanted to be a builder and nothing else. I liked this profession and went to work as a foreman in the construction department while studying at the secondary civil engineering school. Those were the years of famine. At the school we were given meals and on rare occasions gingerbread, which was considered a real treat.
I was never afraid of any type of physical labor after my experience at the furnace shop. I became the foreman, got good wages and was glad not to be a burden on my family.
I grew to love my profession more and more. I still remember the question at the entrance exam to the special technical school, What would you do if the construction process is completed and suddenly from underneath the ground water appears that undermines the basement? I still remember my answer. A trench should be dug at least one meter deeper than the basement and filled with rich clay. The clay needs to be pounded flat and leveled off, then covered with concrete until it reaches a mark slightly above the basement. I received an excellent mark for my answer. It may seem dull to someone else but to me it sounds like music. It might be because I liked my work so much that I could not part with it and retired only at the age of 74.

In 1932, I was supposed to join the Red Army, but was pronounced unfit for active service. I continued working at the construction department until 1941.

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